The Cheerful Anchor and the Inspirer can communicate clearly

You can work together more clearly.

You and Alex may help a team feel welcome in different ways. An I preference may bring new conversations and spontaneous ideas. A Si preference may help people settle into a reliable routine. Confirm the meeting plan before making changes in front of the group.

You can make everyday life together easier.

Alex may want to extend an afternoon visit into dinner while you have planned a quiet evening. Say whether staying longer works for you before agreeing. A warm answer can still include a clear departure time.

If your style is Si, try this with Alex.

• Tell Alex what you would enjoy and when you need to leave.
• Mention a change in plans when it affects your availability.

If your style is I, try this with Alex.

• Check with Alex before extending a visit or adding guests.
• Follow through on the small promise you made during the conversation.

Try a conversation like this.

Adapt these example words to your situation: "Alex, I have enjoyed being here and would like to visit again. I need to leave at five today. Could we plan dinner together next weekend?"

Your styles are one part of the picture

DISC describes communication preferences. It cannot predict whether a relationship will succeed. Your circumstances, values and choices matter too. Use these examples to start a conversation about what fits you both.