The Inspirer and the Supporter can make plans together

How you work together

You and Alex may both care about keeping a team involved while preferring different amounts of time to consider an idea. Talk about what will stay familiar and what will change before asking for a commitment.

How you live together at home

You and Alex may welcome company but differ on how much notice feels comfortable. Before adding guests to a quiet evening, check the plan you already made and agree on any change.

As the Inspirer, you can give Alex time to consider a change.

• Tell Alex what you are looking forward to, and explain which existing plans your idea affects.
• Invite Alex to think it over with you before you make a commitment for both of you.

As the Supporter, you can tell Alex what would make a change work.

• Tell Alex what you like about the idea, then gently name the practical concern you want to settle.
• Suggest a version you would feel comfortable trying, such as inviting two friends on a different evening.

Your styles are one part of the picture

DISC describes communication preferences. It cannot predict whether a relationship will succeed. Your circumstances, values and choices matter too. Use these examples to start a conversation about what fits you both.