The Persuasive Competitor and the Supporter can communicate clearly

You can work together more clearly.

Imagine proposing a new work schedule to Alex. With Di preferences, you may explain the upside and expect a quick yes. With S preferences, you may first consider the people who rely on the current schedule. Discuss existing commitments and give a clear time to revisit the decision.

You can make everyday life together easier.

You may suggest moving the furniture while Alex is settling into a familiar evening routine. Enthusiasm can make the change sound already decided. Ask which parts of the room are working, describe the proposed change, and agree on when to try it.

If your style is Di, try this with Alex.

• Explain what will stay the same when you propose a change.
• Wait for Alex to answer before adding another reason to agree.

If your style is S, try this with Alex.

• Tell Alex which existing commitment needs protection.
• Suggest a time to talk again after you have considered the change.

Try a conversation like this.

Adapt these example words to your situation: "Alex, I want to try the new schedule next week. Your Friday commitment can stay in place. Can we talk tomorrow about the remaining days?"

Your styles are one part of the picture

DISC describes communication preferences. It cannot predict whether a relationship will succeed. Your circumstances, values and choices matter too. Use these examples to start a conversation about what fits you both.