Two Supporters can make room for change

How you work together

You and Alex may both be willing to help when a deadline gets tight. If you each quietly take on extra work, neither of you sees the full workload. Compare your task lists before agreeing to cover another job.

How you live together at home

Familiar routines may make home feel comfortable for both of you. A routine can also keep going after it stops working. Bring up one small change, such as moving a chore to a different evening, and choose a day to try it.

When you need a change, you can give Alex time to consider it.

• Explain what has become difficult and suggest one small adjustment.
• Offer a day to talk again so Alex can think before answering.

When Alex needs a change, you can make your own needs clear.

• Say what you can take on and name anything you already promised to do.
• Ask Alex to choose a time to review the new routine with you.

Your styles are one part of the picture

DISC describes communication preferences. It cannot predict whether a relationship will succeed. Your circumstances, values and choices matter too. Use these examples to start a conversation about what fits you both.