S + D paradox · one of the four paradox types
SpD personality type (The Ambitious Ally)
The Ambitious Ally is patient with people and firm about results.
This type used to be called The Quiet Storm.
The Ambitious Ally stays calm on the surface and decides firmly when it matters.
SpD is one of the four paradox types in the WiredType model. Steadiness and Dominance pull in different directions. This page describes the Ambitious Ally. If the Ambitious Ally is your type, you will likely recognize yourself in it. If you live or work with an Ambitious Ally, it shows what the Ambitious Ally is wired to do and how to work well together.
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Traits of the Ambitious Ally
This section covers what drives the Ambitious Ally and what the Ambitious Ally works to avoid, then the Ambitious Ally's main strength, main weakness, motto and signature animal, from WiredType's profile of the SpD type.
What drives the Ambitious Ally
- The Ambitious Ally wants goals that take months and need people on board, so in their first week in a new job or a new group, they learn who makes each decision.
- They want the day moving and everyone settled, so on a hard morning they calm a coworker in tears and still start their own work on time.
- The Ambitious Ally wants loyalty that friends choose, and they can feel it when a friend asks them, without any hint from them, to plan the next trip together.
- They want a plan they set themselves, so they map their savings toward a goal a year away and add to it each month without telling anyone.
- The Ambitious Ally wants to settle a decision early, so they talk with each person it affects, one at a time, before anyone sits down to choose.
What the Ambitious Ally works to avoid
- The Ambitious Ally can fear choosing between a person and a result they need, as when a coworker they like keeps missing deadlines and the Ambitious Ally's own deadline is Friday.
- They can fear their warmth will look like a strategy, and the hard moment comes when their partner says they planned the holiday before asking anyone.
- The Ambitious Ally can fear losing hold of something they organized, and it starts when a friend moves the reunion date in the group chat without asking them.
- They can fear being underestimated, and it can sting when a relative calls their savings plan cute after they have stuck to it for 2 years.
- They can fear showing the force they usually hold back, and that fear rises the third time someone breaks the same promise to them.
Superpower (main strength)
The Ambitious Ally often reaches the result they set and keeps people's goodwill. When they ask someone to pay back money that person owes them, the person often thanks them for how kindly they asked.
Kryptonite (main weakness)
The Ambitious Ally can let a habit that bothers them pass for weeks, then raise every instance in one firm talk, and the other person asks why they waited so long to say it.
Motto
“I will get there. I am bringing the people I care about with me.”
Signature animal
The orca stays with one family group for life and hunts as a coordinated team.
How the Ambitious Ally works with each style
Each section describes what tends to happen between the Ambitious Ally and a colleague of one style, and gives a line the Ambitious Ally can say. If you are that colleague, read your own style's section.
DSpD and D (Dominance)
A D-type colleague reads the Ambitious Ally's patience as passivity at first. The D-type watches the Ambitious Ally spend Tuesday on hallway talks while the D-type wants a decision. Weeks later, those talks have gotten the plan approved. Some D-types respect that. Others stay frustrated, unable to see how someone so calm gets so much done.
What the Ambitious Ally can say to a D-type colleague: “I want this settled too. Give me 24 hours to talk with the people it affects. By 6 tomorrow I will come back with a plan and a date.”
ISpD and I (Influence)
An I-type colleague warms to the Ambitious Ally fast and assumes the Ambitious Ally cares most about people, which is true. At first the I-type misses the plan the Ambitious Ally is building. The I-type finds it later, for example on learning that the Ambitious Ally picked the launch date before the first meeting. Some I-types admire the preparation. Others feel led without being told. The Ambitious Ally does well to tell the I-type the goal in the first week.
What the Ambitious Ally can say to an I-type colleague: “I love this idea. Here is how I think we make it happen: we pick a date by Sunday, and I handle the bookings. Will you get everyone excited about it?”
SSpD and S (Steadiness)
An S-type colleague often feels like the safest person on the team for the Ambitious Ally. Both avoid open conflict and like a steady week. What the S-type rarely expects is the Ambitious Ally's competitive side. When the S-type learns from someone else that the Ambitious Ally pitched a project to the Ambitious Ally's own director, the S-type can feel misled, as if the warmth covered a plan. The Ambitious Ally relies on this colleague and seldom says so.
What the Ambitious Ally can say to an S-type colleague: “I rely on you, and I want you to hear my plans from me first. Here is what I am going after next, and I want your view before I start.”
CSpD and C (Conscientiousness)
A C type colleague counts on the Ambitious Ally's patience. When the colleague brings a long analysis, the Ambitious Ally lets the colleague walk through every table. The colleague leaves believing the analysis will be weighed. The Ambitious Ally's patience has an end point that the colleague has never heard. On Thursday the Ambitious Ally decides the time for data is over and announces a decision the colleague's numbers do not support. To the colleague, the change can feel abrupt. The Ambitious Ally valued the process up to a deadline the colleague never knew about.
What the Ambitious Ally can say to a C-type colleague: “I read every page, and I want to tell you my deadline now. I will decide by Thursday. Before then, walk me through the two numbers you trust most.”
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